07 It's Been 6-Months and He REFUSES to tell you I love you – Are You Wasting Your Time?

Mindful Menopause for Grown Ass Women

February 7, 2020 ∙ 19 mins
Episode 7

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"It's been 6 months and he refuses to say I love you. Are you wasting your time."

I was tagged in a post in a group that I'm in to answer this question.

I gave a quick answer in the group, knowing that I would need to take this deeper; here is the answer I recorded.

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Mindful Menopause for Grown Ass Women

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7

Date

February 7, 2020

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19 mins
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Mindful Menopause for Grown Ass Women

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