The HRT Series: Part 03 with Dr Sumayya Ebrahim

What the menopause

June 17, 2025 17 mins

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In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin are back with the final episode of the HRT Series with Dr. Sumayya Ebrahim to decode the chaos around bioidentical hormones, blood tests that don’t work, and tubs of cream with mysterious vibes.

It’s the HRT chat that clears the fog (and confirms your rage is valid).

Expect:

  • What bioidentical really means 

  • Why most HRT blood tests are a waste of time

  • The truth about compounded hormones (and why no two tubs are ever the same)

  • How body fat and booze affect oestrogen after menopause

Quick, sharp and full of facts you wish you’d known years ago. Listen now and subscribe: whatthemenopause.substack.com

Email us on whathemenopause@gmail.com if you have any questions you want answered by an expert.

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Episode

7

Date

June 17, 2025

Length

17 mins
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