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November 2, 2025 17 mins

The Sex Series: Part 03 with Karen Bester

In this episode, Mandy wraps up her conversation with Karen Bester, diving into how to get the help and support you need during perimenopause and menopause. From advocating for yourself in the doctor’s office to embracing the confidence and clarity of “menopausal zest,” this is an empowering finale to our three-part series. Expect: How to […]
September 1, 2025 17 mins

The Sex Series: Part 02 with Karen Bester

In this episode, Mandy continues her conversation with Medical Training Manager at Lamelle Research Laboratories, Karen Bester but this time looking at what we can do to keep intimacy alive in menopause and perimenopause. From lifestyle shifts to medical interventions, it’s about taking charge of your sexual health now to protect your future self. Karen […]
August 12, 2025 20 mins

The Sex Series: Part 01 with Karen Bester

In this episode, Mandy chats to Medical Training Manager at Lamelle Research Laboratories, Karen Bester, about sex, sexuality, and the menopause years and why our Gen X upbringing shaped how we think about intimacy, and what’s really going on with our bodies and brains. Expect: Why Gen X women grew up with a conservative view […]
July 20, 2025 25 mins

Sleep Series: Part 03 with Dr Alison Bentley

In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin wrap up the Sleep Series with Dr Alison Bentley, one of South Africa’s top sleep specialists and the woman who just might save you from another 2am internal TED Talk. Expect: The truth about the eight hours of sleep myth and why your brain might only want five How […]
July 8, 2025 13 mins

The Sleep Series: Part 02 with Dr Alison Bentley

In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin are back with Dr Alison Bentley for part two of the Sleep Series and this one is a total eye-opener. They’re talking sleep apnea, restless legs, and why bad sleep isn’t just annoying, it’s dangerous. Expect: Why untreated sleep apnea can speed up diabetes, dementia, heart disease, and more […]

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  • The Sex Series: Part 03 with Karen Bester

    In this episode, Mandy wraps up her conversation with Karen Bester, diving into how to get the help and support you need during perimenopause and menopause. From advocating for yourself in the doctor’s office to embracing the confidence and clarity of “menopausal zest,” this is an empowering finale to our three-part series. Expect: How to […]

  • The Sex Series: Part 02 with Karen Bester

    In this episode, Mandy continues her conversation with Medical Training Manager at Lamelle Research Laboratories, Karen Bester but this time looking at what we can do to keep intimacy alive in menopause and perimenopause. From lifestyle shifts to medical interventions, it’s about taking charge of your sexual health now to protect your future self. Karen […]

  • The Sex Series: Part 01 with Karen Bester

    In this episode, Mandy chats to Medical Training Manager at Lamelle Research Laboratories, Karen Bester, about sex, sexuality, and the menopause years and why our Gen X upbringing shaped how we think about intimacy, and what’s really going on with our bodies and brains. Expect: Why Gen X women grew up with a conservative view […]

  • Sleep Series: Part 03 with Dr Alison Bentley

    In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin wrap up the Sleep Series with Dr Alison Bentley, one of South Africa’s top sleep specialists and the woman who just might save you from another 2am internal TED Talk. Expect: The truth about the eight hours of sleep myth and why your brain might only want five How […]

  • The Sleep Series: Part 02 with Dr Alison Bentley

    In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin are back with Dr Alison Bentley for part two of the Sleep Series and this one is a total eye-opener. They’re talking sleep apnea, restless legs, and why bad sleep isn’t just annoying, it’s dangerous. Expect: Why untreated sleep apnea can speed up diabetes, dementia, heart disease, and more […]

  • The Sleep Series: Part 01 with Dr Alison Bentley

    In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin kick off the Sleep Series with Dr Alison Bentley, GP, sleep specialist, and the woman who’ll finally explain why you’re wide awake at 2am plotting your grocery list and escape. Expect: Why your hormones aren’t the only reason you can’t sleep Restless legs, snoring, and the hidden epidemic of […]

  • The HRT Series: Part 03 with Dr Sumayya Ebrahim

    In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin are back with the final episode of the HRT Series with Dr. Sumayya Ebrahim to decode the chaos around bioidentical hormones, blood tests that don’t work, and tubs of cream with mysterious vibes. It’s the HRT chat that clears the fog (and confirms your rage is valid). Expect: What […]

  • The HRT Series: Part 02 with Dr Sumayya Ebrahim

    In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin sit down with Dr. Sumayya Ebrahim, gynaecologist, menopause warrior, and HRT expert, to pull apart the big fears and even bigger facts about HRT. Like, did you know the most-feared HRT study got a lot wrong? Or that modern oestrogen might actually help prevent breast cancer, not cause it? […]

  • The HRT Series: Part 01 with Dr Sumayya Ebrahim

    In this episode, Mandy and Tamsin sit down with Dr. Sumayya Ebrahim, gynaecologist, menopause warrior, and HRT expert, to ask the big questions: What is HRT? Do we need it? Will it make us grow beards or just help us sleep? Expect: Oestrogen in a patch, gel, or oral Testosterone for your libido and your […]

  • Sitting down with a GP: Part 02

    In this episode, we dive headfirst into the oestrogen void with Dr. Chrissy du Plessis and discover that menopause has no official end. Expect: Zombiefied lady parts (hello, atrophy) Brain fog and brittle skin Heel pain and itchy ears Mood swings courtesy of progesterone And zero fanfare when it’s theoretically over Basically, your body’s running […]

  • Sitting down with a GP: Part 01 Remastered

    In this episode, we bring in actual medical muscle — Dr. Chrissy du Plessis — to answer the big questions: what’s the difference between perimenopause and menopause, and why is your period ghosting you? Expect: Sleep chaos and rogue hormones Mood wobbles and menopausal maths Puberty flashbacks (sorry) HRT and hot takes While Chrissy is […]

  • Episode 02: What are perimenopause and menopause?

    In this episode, your hosts Mandy Collins and Tamsin Mackay try to figure out what menopause actually is with no medical training, but plenty of personal trauma. Expect: Brain fog and midnight wees The Golden Girls  The menopause stalk (not a typo) Saggy bits and survival skills Get in touch: whatthemenopause@gmail.com More chaos here: https://whatthemenopause.substack.com/

  • Episode 01: What is it?

    In this episode, your hosts Mandy Collins and Tamsin Mackay wonder if they’re losing their minds, their hormones, or just their patience. Expect: Doctors who say “It’s just stress” Estrogen vs Progesterone: Dawn of Confusion Get in touch: whathemenopause@gmail.com or visit us on Substack: https://whatthemenopause.substack.com/

  • The Science of Nighttime Recovery

    S.2. Ep5 This episode is for anyone who ends their day exhausted… but still can’t fully switch off. The racing thoughts. The mental to-do lists. The feeling of being physically tired, but mentally wired. The quiet frustration of knowing you need rest — but not knowing how to actually get it. In this episode, Lara […]

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    Why Your Belly Fat Won’t Budge (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right)

    Belly fat in perimenopause and menopause can feel impossible to lose, even when you’re eating well and exercising. So what actually works? In this special episode, Tamsen brings together the best advice from some of The Tamsen Show’s top experts on midlife weight gain, visceral fat, metabolism, hormones, insulin resistance, and GLP-1 medications. From the […]

  • 92 – Hormones, mood and mental health myths Dr Sue Varma

    Psychiatrist Dr Sue Varma joins Dr Louise Newson to unpack why hormones are so often left out of mental health care and what gets missed as a result, from puberty to postpartum to perimenopause. Dr Varma is a board-certified psychiatrist and was the first medical director of the World Trade Center Mental Health Program, treating […]

  • The Exact Episode You Need to Hear Today if You Feel Overwhelmed, Stressed, or Stuck

    Today’s episode is a conversation you are going to want to revisit over and over and over. You are about to learn the skills nobody ever taught you, but you need now more than ever. It’s hard to not feel exhausted and just overwhelmed in today’s world. You are constantly being bombarded with bad news, […]

  • Chris McCausland: “Dependence is exhausting!” Holidaying with a disability

    What ratio of planned activities to spontaneity do you love when you travel? Comedian Chris McCausland has to know some top tier activities have been booked ahead of time. Welcome to The Happy Place Guide To Holidays! In this chat with Fearne – brought to you by British Airways Holidays – Chris explains how holidays […]

  • Reinventing Life After 60: Elizabeth Perkins Talks Menopause, Women’s Health & Finding Herself Again (Replay)

    SEASON 8 STARTS NEXT WEEK! In our final replay episode of Season 7, we revisit our conversation with actress and advocate Elizabeth Perkins. Elizabeth shares her personal experiences with reinvention, motherhood, menopause, women’s health, and the freedom that comes from finally putting yourself first. After four decades as an actress and nearly four decades as a […]

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    Menopause and the 3AM Wake Up: What Light, Meal Timing and Hormones Do with Dr. Kristen Holmes

    In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver sits down with Dr. Kristen Holmes, Vice President of Performance Science at Whoop and author of the new book Aligned, to unpack why sleep and circadian rhythm matter as much as hormones when it comes to the symptoms women feel in perimenopause and menopause. Dr. Holmes […]

  • Ep. 231: Powerful Peptides: Targeted Messenger Molecules for Gut Health & Menopause Vitality with Kyal Van Der Leest

    Prepare to discover a revolutionary approach to health and longevity that is transforming how we think about healing! In this  fan-favorite episode, Dr. Fiona Lovely sits down with Kyal Van Der Leest, an Australian Nutritionist and Naturopath who is at the forefront of bio-identical and peptide-based therapies. If you’ve heard the word “peptides” trending in […]

  • Ep 540: What I've Learned at 74 About Food Freedom, Menopause and GLP-1s

    If you’ve been wondering whether GLP-1 medication is right for you, staying stuck in “maybe” may be causing more stress than either decision itself. In this episode, I reflect on celebrating my 74th birthday and the freedom I’ve created around food after years of doing this work. I share why trusting yourself around food matters […]

  • 91 – Demi Brown: Endometriosis, fibroids & hormones

    Love Is Blind's Demi Santana Brown opens up aboutendometriosis, adenomyosis, fibroids and the power of natural hormones. Before Love Is Blind UK, Demi was a professional footballer for Millwall, West Ham and Leyton Orient – playing through heavy, painful periods for years before doctors took her seriously. She joins Dr Louise Newsonto share what it's […]

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    Chrissy Metz: Why I Finally Said Yes to a GLP-1 (And Stopped Blaming Myself)

    Chrissy Metz is opening up to Tamsen Fadal about one of the biggest decisions she’s ever made for her health. After years of living with food noise, struggling with shame around her weight, and wondering why she couldn’t “just get it together,” the This Is Us star shares why she decided to start a GLP-1 […]

  • 228: Foods That Can Kill You; and What You Can't Do About IT!

    (00:00:00) 228: Foods That Can Kill You; and What You Can’t Do About IT! (00:00:11) Welcome to the Itchy and Bitchy Podcast (00:00:42) Doc Itchy Medical Pets Supplements (00:01:02) The Dirty Dozen: Pesticide Contaminated Produce (00:07:07) The Pathogen Problem: Foodborne Illnesses on the Rise (00:15:28) The Controversy: What to Do About Contaminated Food (00:25:56) Practical […]

  • World Leading Psychologist: How to Manifest Anything & Create the Life You Want

    Today, you are going to learn the science of manifestation, visualization, and imagination – and the steps you can take to start creating the life you want. In this powerful episode, Mel sits down with Dr. Cassandra Vieten, PhD, a clinical psychologist, professor at UC San Diego, and one of the world’s leading researchers on […]

  • Ruby Wax: “I was addicted to rage!” How to respond instead of reacting

    Have you noticed that your memory and rational thinking disappear when you’re anxious? Ruby Wax wants you to retrain your focus and attention in a digital world that’s always trying to steal it. In this chat with Fearne – live from the Happy Place Festival – Ruby explains the difference between mental health and mental […]

  • 0%, 5% or 10% Greek yogurt – which is healthiest?

    Confused by the endless choice of Greek yogurts? Liz discusses the key differences between the options based on nutrients, additives, texture and satiety. She also explains why low-fat isn’t always healthier, and what to look for on the label. Plus: mineral versus synthetic sunscreen, how to deal with prickly heat rash, ways for regular runners […]

  • Feel Better Fast: The 5 Things That Shift Your Mood Instantly

    If you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed, burned out, or stressed, today’s episode will remind you that you are not stuck – and that you can shift how you feel right now. In this episode, Mel breaks down the top 5 feelings that more than half a million listeners shared that you’re struggling with. For each one, […]

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    An ADHD and Menopause Toolkit: What Actually Helps with Dr. Sasha Hamdani

    In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver continues her conversation with Dr. Sasha Hamdani, a board certified psychiatrist and ADHD clinical expert who wrote Self-Care for People with ADHD and the forthcoming Too Sensitive, moving from diagnosis into what to actually do once ADHD and perimenopause or menopause start colliding. Dr. Hamdani explains […]

  • Can you dial down your genetic risk of disease? – with Dr Camilla Stokholm & Dr Amy Walker

    After a strong family history of breast cancer, GP Dr Camilla Stokholm turned to her own DNA for answers. She joins Liz and Dr Amy Walker to explore how understanding our genetic risk for disease empowers us to make lifestyle interventions before it has a chance to develop. They explain how unique genetic variations influence everything […]

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    The Sleep Doctor to World’s Top Athletes Explains Why You Can’t Sleep

    Struggling with sleep anxiety, insomnia, or wondering if you’ll ever be able to follow the perfect sleep routine? This conversation is for you. In this episode, Dr. Chris Winter, one of the country’s most sought-after sleep neurologists and author of The Sleep Solution: Why Your Sleep Is Broken and How To Fix It, is joining […]

  • 90 – Hair loss, hormones and menopause: what’s really causing it? Archana Rao

    Hair loss can have a profound impact on confidence, yet many women are told it’s simply part of getting older or encouraged to spend hundreds of pounds on products that promise far more than they can deliver. This week, Dr Louise Newson is joined by consultant dermatologist and hair specialist Dr Archana Rao to explore […]

  • Organize Your Life & Home: The Simple System That Gives You More Time, Energy, & Control

    This conversation will make your home and your life feel lighter and easier in the first 10 minutes.  Clutter is stealing your time, draining your energy, and you are about to learn the fast and simple way to take back your sanity.  Even better news: You do not need to spend an entire weekend to […]

  • From Chaos to Calm: The Easiest Way to Organize Your Life and Home

    This conversation will make your home and your life feel lighter and easier in the first 10 minutes.  Clutter is stealing your time, draining your energy, and you are about to learn the fast and simple way to take back your sanity.  Even better news: You do not need to spend an entire weekend to […]

  • Feeling stressed? You’re probably dehydrated! Make hydration a habit, with Phizz

    You know how your mood dips when you’re hangry? Well, being thangry is a thing too! Thirst – being dehydrated – can have a very real impact on everything from your stress levels to cognitive function and physical performance. We’re heading back to this year’s Happy Place Festival, where the Talk Stage was sponsored by […]

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