Restrictions Are Being Lifted – Now What?

Martinis Mayhem And Menopause

May 5, 2021 21 mins

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This week we talk about life after.... the pandemic that is. We haven't been able to do much until most recently. With a lot of states easing, and some completely lifting all, restrictions what have you learned about yourself, what are you going to do now? Shake your tail feather? Shake your tail feather internationally? Or just run around the coop at home (U.S.A.)?

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May 5, 2021

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21 mins
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