Memoir Series: Growing Pains 7 – Hometown Racism and Christmas (Launch Your Life Podcast Episode 168)

Launch Your Life Podcast

August 30, 2022 ∙ 12 mins
Episode 7

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There’s no easy way to talk about racism.

It’s a learned behavior and hard to unlearn without a relaunch to thinking patterns. 

I didn’t know anything different. But I actively worked to see how I was raised and change this. 

And I'm still a work in progress.

Today on the Launch Your Life Podcast, I’m talking about the racist history of my home town and Christmas, among other things

What’s Discussed in This Episode:

00:00 Intro

01:40 Racism

07:32 Christmas in the House of Many Horrors

10:03 Baby Grow-A-Tooth

11:17 Unlearning childhood beliefs

 

Resources:

For more information, here’s the references used in this podcast:

https://www.britannica.com/event/Executive-Order-8802

https://www.blackpast.org/african-american-history/executive-order-8802-1941-2/ 

https://www.blackpast.org/african-american-history/sundown-towns/

https://tumbleweird.org/the-tri-cities-is-a-sundown-town-again/

https://biblehub.com/galatians/3-28.htmhttps://depts.washington.edu/labhist/maps-race-tricities.shtml

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Launch Your Life Podcast

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7

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August 30, 2022

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12 mins
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