How To Manage Perimenopause – Willpower vs. Consistency | 305

Hello, Hot Flash: Christian Menopause, Weight Loss, Hormones & Midlife Health

October 8, 2026 ∙ 17 mins
Episode 20

About

You have tried the plan. Maybe three plans. You made it eleven days and then a hard week ended with a candy bar you ate in the car before you pulled out of the parking lot. And the thought that followed was not "that plan did not fit my body." It was, "I just do not have the discipline for this."

That thought is the problem Stephanie is solving in this episode -- not the candy bar.

She walks through the sugar-cortisol loop that gets worse the harder you fight it with sheer force of will, and then opens Isaiah 58 and Galatians 5 to reframe what a fast was actually designed to do: not restriction for its own sake, but freedom from something that had a grip on you.

What You'll Hear

  • Why the blood sugar-cortisol cycle lands harder in perimenopause and menopause than it did in your 30s
  • Why fighting the loop with discipline alone makes it worse, not better
  • What Isaiah 58 actually says a fast is for (it is not punishment)
  • Two tools for today: the 24-hour "notice, don't fix" practice and one prayer to replace the willpower lie

Resources Mentioned

Ready for ongoing community, live calls, and faith-integrated support? Join the Christian Women and Menopause Skool Community: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-menopause-8762/about

 

Additional Resources

Reclaimed: 40 Days

A 40-day sugar and hormone reset for women in perimenopause and menopause. Next cohort begins October 12. Live weekly coaching, private community, full resource library.

Christian Women and Menopause -- Limited Series

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Hello, Hot Flash: Christian Menopause, Weight Loss, Hormones & Midlife Health

Episode

20

Date

October 8, 2026

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17 mins
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