334 💕 Date Smarter in Midlife: Trust Your Inner GPS & Find Lasting Love with Sandy Weiner

The Midlife Makeover Show | Women Over 40, Menopause Support, Divorce Recovery, Empty Nest Advice, Aging Gracefully, Finding Purpose

June 18, 2026 ∙ 42 mins
Episode 4

About

In this fun and empowering episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Sandy Weiner — Chief Love Officer at Last First Date, internationally known TEDx speaker, and author of three books on dating and relationships — to talk about what it really takes to find love in midlife.


Sandy gets refreshingly real about the dating mistakes we make, from the attraction trap to the fantasy-attachment spiral, and why the key to finding lasting love isn't finding the right person first — it's becoming the right person first.


From setting boundaries on a first date to discovering your core values through your biggest pet peeves, this episode is packed with practical, no-nonsense wisdom for anyone navigating love after 40.


What You'll Learn

•       What's truly different about dating in midlife vs. your 20s and 30s — and why that's actually a very good thing

•       How to uncover your core values using Sandy's simple "what annoys me" method

•       Sandy's practical "Boundaries in Your Back Pocket" approach for communicating your needs with confidence on dates

•       The attraction trap — and why chemistry can make us overlook major red flags

•       How to know when you're truly ready to date again after divorce or loss — and what to do if you're not sure yet


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Podcast

The Midlife Makeover Show | Women Over 40, Menopause Support, Divorce Recovery, Empty Nest Advice, Aging Gracefully, Finding Purpose

Episode

4

Date

June 18, 2026

Length

42 mins
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