237 | What My Pickleball Meltdown Taught Me About Trying to Lose Weight

Menopause Makeover⎮Belly Fat, Strength Train, Lose Weight, Hormone Imbalance, Mindset

October 1, 2026 ∙ 19 mins
Episode 86

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What if the biggest thing getting in the way of your ability to lose weight isn't your food plan—but your mindset?

After a VERY competitive pickleball game with my husband, I had one of those moments where I could feel my attitude going downhill…and I let it.

Then Romans 8 hit me differently: I don't have to follow every feeling.

And friend, neither do you.

If you're trying to lose weight but keep getting pulled into thoughts like, "I already messed up," "Nothing is working," "I'll start again Monday," or "I hate how my body looks," your mindset may be driving more of your decisions than you realize.

In this episode, we're talking about renewing your mind, breaking all-or-nothing patterns, handling body frustration, and learning how to make the next supportive choice even when you don't feel motivated.

Because learning how to lose weight in midlife isn't about perfection. It's about building a mindset that helps you keep going.

Ready to get serious about stubborn belly fat? Come join me inside the Belly Fat Breakthrough Tribe.

 

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Podcast

Menopause Makeover⎮Belly Fat, Strength Train, Lose Weight, Hormone Imbalance, Mindset

Episode

86

Date

October 1, 2026

Length

19 mins
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    Have you ever wondered why your cravings for sweets feel louder, stronger, and harder to ignore after 40 — even when you’re eating “on plan”? If you’ve found yourself battling cravings for sugar, bargaining with desserts, or feeling frustrated that willpower just isn’t cutting it anymore, this episode is for you. In this first part […]

  • 170 | Exercise Snacks: How Tiny Bursts Improve Blood Sugar in Menopause

    Not long ago, I realized something had to change in the way we approach exercise in midlife. Pushing harder wasn’t working—and honestly, for a lot of women, it was making things worse. If workouts feel more draining than energizing, if your body isn’t responding the way it used to, or if your hormones seem to […]

  • 169 | 12 Ways To Support Healthy Blood Sugar In Midlife

    If you’re juggling work, kids, aging parents, laundry piles, a grocery bill that makes you gasp… and still wondering why belly fat keeps showing up uninvited — this episode is for you. Not because you’re failing. Not because you’re unmotivated. But because midlife hormones change the rules. In this episode of The Menopause Makeover Podcast, […]

  • 168 | Overcome The Shame–Cortisol Cycle That Fuels Belly Fat

    Have you ever eaten off plan or skipped a workout—and immediately felt that familiar wave of guilt, frustration, or “what is wrong with me?” That moment matters more than you think… not because of the food, but because of what happens next in your mindset and your nervous system. In this episode of The Menopause […]

  • 167 | Why Midlife Weight Loss Has To Be Simple Now

    If you’re trying to lose weight in midlife but not strength training, this episode may explain exactly why your progress has stalled. So many women in menopause are eating less, walking more, and doing “all the healthy things” — yet belly fat won’t budge, energy is low, and hormone imbalance feels louder than ever. The […]

  • 166 | The Hidden Thyroid Issue Blocking Weight Loss After 40

    Have you ever been told your labs are “normal”… but your body feels anything but? Low energy, stubborn weight gain, brain fog, and that frustrating sense that something is just off—yet you keep hearing, “Everything looks fine.” In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on a huge missing piece for many midlife women: thyroid […]

  • 165 | The Mindset Shift You Need To Lose Weight After 40

    Midlife weight loss isn’t just about food or movement. It’s about managing your expectations, your thoughts, and your trust — in your body, in the process, and in God’s timing. If you’re trying to lose weight in midlife and feel stuck, discouraged, or tempted to start over, this episode is for you. In today’s coaching-style episode, […]

  • 164 | Overwhelmed, Hormonal, And Snacking At Night? Start Here

    Have you ever said, “I know what to eat… I just can’t stop eating when I’m emotional”? You can feel calm and confident all day—then nighttime hits. You’re tired, stressed, overwhelmed… and suddenly food feels like comfort, relief, or escape. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I’m talking honestly […]

  • 163 | Muscle First, Then Fat Loss: Why Strength Training Works After 40

    Have you been strength training, eating “on plan,” doing all the right things… and yet the scale isn’t moving — or worse, it’s creeping up? If that’s you, this episode is going to bring so much peace to your mind and clarity to your strategy. In today’s Menopause Makeover Podcast, we’re flipping one of the […]

  • 162 | 5 Truths About Belly Fat, Hormones, and Losing Weight in Midlife

    Are you exhausted from starting over with weight loss… again? If belly fat feels stubborn, your energy is low, and your body just isn’t responding like it used to, this episode is for you. Today, I’m sharing a different approach to losing weight in midlife—one that doesn’t rely on pressure, panic, or fixing yourself. Because […]

  • 161 | Walking More Isn't Helping You Lose Belly Fat—Here's Why

     Or maybe you’ve tried doing more—longer workouts, harder cardio—only to feel exhausted, inflamed, and stuck with stubborn belly fat. In this episode, I’m clearing up the confusion once and for all. We’re talking about menopause exercise, specifically walking, and why it works differently for midlife women. Not as punishment. Not to “burn off food.” But […]

  • 160 | Lose Weight After The Holidays With Simple Protein Meals

    Have you ever thought, “I know what to do… I’m just not doing it”—especially after the holidays? If you’re feeling bloated, tired, off-rhythm, or quietly discouraged, this episode is your gentle way back. In today’s Menopause Makeover Podcast, I’m walking you through how to get back to Trim Healthy without overwhelm, shame, or extremes. No […]

  • 159 | Strength Train or Rest? How to Listen to Your Body in Menopause

    What do you do when your body says “slow down” — but your heart still wants to show up strong? If you’re in midlife and dealing with an injury, hormone imbalance, chronic pain, or a season where your schedule (or caregiving role) feels overwhelming, this episode is for you. In today’s very personal conversation, I’m […]

  • 158 | Why You Can't Trust the Scale in Menopause (But Can Still Lose Belly Fat)

    Why does the scale feel so wacky in midlife—especially when you’re doing all the “right” things? If you’re eating well, prioritizing protein, strength training, and trying to take care of yourself… yet the scale keeps bouncing up and down, this episode is for you. So many midlife women tell me, “Why do I keep gaining […]

  • 157 | Facing Menopause Giants Like Hormone Imbalance, Weight Gain, And Mindset

    Do you feel like midlife has brought a whole new set of “giants” you never asked for—belly fat, hormone imbalance, low energy, and a mind that keeps telling you nothing will work anymore? In this episode of The Menopause Makeover Podcast, I’m sharing a message straight from my own heart—and straight from Scripture. We’re talking […]

  • 156 | How to Lose Weight in Midlife Without Blowing Up Your Holidays

    Do the holidays make you feel like all your progress goes out the window? Like you’re on everyone else’s schedule, surrounded by food, and holding your breath until January? Let’s talk about a better way. In this episode of The Menopause Makeover Podcast, I’m sharing simple, realistic holiday strategies I coach my own midlife clients […]

  • 155 | 5 Belly Fat Loss Truths That Reward Consistency after 50

    Have you ever thought, “I’m doing all the right things… so why is my belly fat getting worse?” If that’s you, pull up a chair, friend — this episode is for you. In this episode of The Menopause Makeover Podcast, I’m sharing five things every midlife woman needs to understand about fat loss after 40 […]

  • 154 | Why You Didn't Fail—How To Lose Belly Fat After Holidays

    Did the holidays leave you feeling bloated, behind, and a little ashamed… like you “blew it” and now you have to start over? Friend, lean in close—because that story is not the truth. In this episode, I’m walking you from shame to strength with a gentle reset that actually works for a midlife body. Not […]

  • 153 | How Long Does It Take To Lose Belly Fat & Build Muscle After 40?

    Why does changing your body after 40 feel so slow — even when you’re doing “all the right things”? If you’ve been strength training, eating your Trim Healthy meals, and still staring at the scale wondering what on earth is happening, today’s episode is going to breathe so much relief into your journey. We’re talking […]

  • 152 | What If You Could Lose Belly Fat With Simple Consistency After 40?

    Ever feel like you’re doing “all the things” and still not losing belly fat — no matter how hard you try? If you’re in perimenopause or menopause, that frustrating stop-and-start cycle isn’t a lack of willpower. It’s your midlife hormones asking for a new approach. In today’s episode, we’re talking about the quiet power of […]

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    Menopause Skin Treatments: Botox, Lasers and Lifestyle

    Nothing needed cutting. The full description comes to 3,601 characters, so it’s under the 4,000 limit: In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver continues her conversation with Dr. Erica Kelly, board-certified dermatologist, Clinical Professor at the University of Texas Medical Branch, and founder and director of UTMB’s Cosmetic Dermatology Division and this time […]

  • 3 Keys for Menopause Fat Loss from a Fat Loss Researcher

    With the endless stream of advice, there are 3 keys for menopause fat loss you need to know. The answer isn’t another diet, harder workouts, or doing even more. One of them might surprise you, because it has nothing to do with giving up when your body composition isn’t changing the way you want. If […]

  • Episode 47: BUSTING THROUGH THE MYSTERIES OF BIPOLAR PERI/MENOPAUSE with JIBZ CAMERON aka DYNASTY HANDBAG

    ⚡️In this week's In this weeks episode Alicia and Jibz Cameron AKA Dynasty Handbag connect the dots between creativity, survival, bipolar disorder and the ways women and AFAB people have been under-treated for decades. We get into her feral childhood origin story and fierce memoir “Hell in a Handbag”, her brilliantly strange alchemy of performance […]

  • The surprising truth about cortisol in midlife – with Dr Erin Kinney

    We often think of cortisol as the big, bad stress hormone we need to keep as low as possible. But what if too little is just as bad for your health? Naturopathic doctor Erin Kinney joins Liz to explain why cortisol is an essential hormone for energy, focus, inflammation and resilience – and why our […]

  • SEEN & HEARD: Breast Cancer at 19: Menopause Symptoms and Life After Diagnosis with Miranda McKeon

    What does it feel like to face breast cancer at 19—and experience menopause symptoms while your friends are in a completely different stage of life? In this episode of Seen & Heard, actress, content creator and women’s health advocate Miranda McKeon shares her experience of being diagnosed with stage 3 hormone-positive breast cancer at just […]

  • How to eat to lower inflammation – the top 5 foods to boost energy, stop pain, and to live longer | Prof Luke O’Neill

    Most of us think of inflammation when an ankle swells or a cut turns red. It’s our body’s immune system, and without it, we couldn’t fight infections or repair injuries.  But when it stays switched on, this chronic inflammation can drain your energy, can affect your health over the years, and even lead to heart […]

  • 237 | What My Pickleball Meltdown Taught Me About Trying to Lose Weight

    What if the biggest thing getting in the way of your ability to lose weight isn’t your food plan—but your mindset? After a VERY competitive pickleball game with my husband, I had one of those moments where I could feel my attitude going downhill…and I let it. Then Romans 8 hit me differently: I don’t […]

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    Toe Spacers, Bunions + The Foot Fixes That Could Change How You Age

    If you’ve been searching for how to strengthen your feet, improve your balance, walk better, help bunions, choose the right shoes, or stay mobile as you age, this episode is for you. Your feet could be telling you more about your health than you realize. Today, Tamsen sits down with foot and gait specialist Dr. […]

  • Breast Cancer & Menopause with Gaby Natale, Monica Molenaar, and Dr. Marisa Weiss.

    October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and in this episode, Stacy is joined by three women who’ve lived where breast cancer and menopause collide: journalist and survivor Gaby Natale, Alloy co-founder/co-CEO and survivor Monica Molenaar, and breast oncologist and survivor Dr. Marisa Weiss of Breastcancer.org. Gaby talks about “breaking the news to yourself” after her […]

  • 104: From Body Bully to Body Ally with Anne Poirier

    Body changes during perimenopause and menopause can bring old struggles with weight, appearance, and self-worth back to the surface. For women who have spent years dieting, restricting food, or trying to change their bodies, learning to relate to a changing body in a different way can be challenging. In this episode, Dr. Jessica Ritch is […]

  • Episode 237 – Beyond Tamoxifen and AIs: Are SERDs the New Kids on the Block?

    What if tamoxifen and aromatase inhibitors weren’t the only options? For many people with hormone receptor-positive breast cancer, endocrine therapy can be lifesaving – but it can also be incredibly difficult to live with. Joint pain, sleep problems, sexual health changes, bone health, weight and metabolic changes can all have a significant impact on day-to-day […]

  • Most replayed moment: The hidden dangers of hearing loss | Prof. Marcelo Rivolta

    The world around us is louder than ever. From booming speakers to roaring traffic, our ears can take quite a beating. But have you ever stopped to consider the long-term impact of all this noise? Because hearing loss isn’t just about your ears. Emerging research suggests it could also affect your brain health in surprising […]

  • 236 | Why Estrogen Changes Where You Store Belly Fat After 40

    Have you looked at your stomach lately and thought, “Wait…where did THAT come from?” Maybe the scale hasn’t changed much, but your waist has. Your jeans fit differently, you’re carrying more belly fat, and the things that worked in your 30s aren’t getting the same response anymore. There’s a reason for that—and in this episode, […]

  • 355 ✨ Giving Up the Ghost: How to Stop Playing Small and Finally Be Seen in Midlife with Samantha Rose, Emmy-Winning Writer & NYT Bestselling Ghostwriter

    What would it take for you to give up YOUR ghost? In this episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy Valentine sits down with Samantha Rose — Emmy award-winning television writer and New York Times bestselling ghostwriter of nearly twenty books — to talk about what happens when the woman behind everyone else’s stories finally […]

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    Menopause Skin Changes and the Science of Skincare

    In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver sits down with Dr. Erica Kelly, board-certified dermatologist, Clinical Professor at the University of Texas Medical Branch, and founder and director of UTMB’s Cosmetic Dermatology Division — and the first physician who ever connected the dots for Mary Claire between estrogen, collagen, and what happens to […]

  • You May Be Mineral Deficient in Menopause: Obvious and Hidden Signs

    This episode is sponsored by BEAM Minerals. BEAM Minerals – Get 20% off your first order at https://beamminerals.com/FLIPPING50 with code FLIPPING50. Could you be mineral deficient in menopause without realizing it? That everyday fatigue, lower energy, or feeling like you’re just not quite yourself may be easy to chalk up to aging or menopause—but what […]

  • 335:The Dignity Gap: Your Dog Gets a Kinder Death Than You Will" : "Death With Dignity – An Honest Talk

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    How to Lower Your Breast Cancer Risk Without Obsessing Over Everything

    Breast cancer is rising in younger women, but why? And what do plastics, alcohol, fragrance, deodorant, PFAS, pesticides, and other everyday exposures actually have to do with breast cancer risk? In this episode of The Tamsen Show, Tamsen Fadal sits down with medical oncologist Dr. Eleonora Teplinsky to separate breast cancer facts from fear and […]

  • How I look after my joints and bones at 63

    Liz discusses the importance of looking after our bone health as we get older and explains the difference between osteoarthritis and osteoporosis. She also shares how she supports her own bone density and joint health, from HRT and strength training to impact exercise, high-protein foods and supplements. Plus: How salt can be used to hydrate, […]

Menopause Makeover⎮Belly Fat, Strength Train, Lose Weight, Hormone Imbalance, Mindset

Lose Weight Through Hormone Driven Health Strategies. Are you tired of making the best choices, doing all the right things to lose weight, and finding nothing is working anymore? Tired of struggling to get your jeans buttoned? Rocking the Trim Healthy eating plan only to see the digits on the scale go up instead of […]

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