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The 4 Shifts You Need to Start Your Next Chapter

The Tamsen Show

March 2, 2026 ∙ 20 mins
Episode 65

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In this deeply personal solo episode, Tamsen Fadal opens up about what reinvention actually looks like and how to rewrite your next chapter with intention. After walking away from a 30-year career and stepping into an entirely new season of life, she found herself facing a question so many women quietly ask: If I’m not who I used to be… who am I now? This episode is about the space between who you were and who you’re becoming. It’s about the old identities we cling to, the labels that once felt safe, and the fear that shows up when you begin starting over (even when you know it’s time.) Reinvention isn’t about erasing your past. It’s about deciding which parts of your story still belong in your next chapter. You’ll learn how to: - Identify and release the outdated labels that are quietly shaping your decisions - Use the “I’m having the thought that…” technique to create distance from self-doubt - Write a realistic “week in the life” of your next chapter to clarify who you’re becoming - Practice your new identity through small, daily actions that build momentum - Handle resistance from others without explaining or defending yourself - Stay anchored to your “why” when fear or second-guessing creeps in By the end of this episode, you’ll see starting over differently. You’ll understand that you’re not too old, it’s not too late, and you’re not done… you’re still becoming. And you’ll walk away with a clear, grounded way to step into your next chapter without losing yourself in the process. If you like this episode, then you will love: The 4 Tools That Rebuild Your Confidence Fast Stay connected with Tamsen: ⁠Get ⁠Tamsen's newsletter⁠ filled with free tools⁠ to living better, feeling stronger, and knowing you’re never alone Get Tamsen’s NYT instant bestselling book, ⁠How To Menopause⁠ ⁠Free Resources⁠ from Tamsen  Watch all the episodes on ⁠YouTube⁠ Follow Tamsen on ⁠Instagram⁠  The Tamsen Show on ⁠Instagram⁠ Follow Tamsen on ⁠TikTok⁠  Sponsored by Audible.com: ⁠https://www.audible.com/ep/well-being?srsltid=AfmBOoqJzGW89LNWPV2jE_57v2hv30R6t-I9wDm_9awhk8jtvwbW2o6t ⁠ Explore Audible’s well-being collection.  Take care of your mind and body with the help of the top voices in well-being on Audible. Fitness, finance, sleep, career – take care of it all with guidance from the top voices in well-being on Audible.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit⁠ podcastchoices.com/adchoices⁠ Medical Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns or treatment options. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of The Tamsen Show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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The Tamsen Show

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65

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March 2, 2026

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20 mins
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    The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

    Routine might feel safe, but for your brain, it can become a prison. This week, Dr. Yalda Safai joins Tamsen to talk about the science of novelty and why trying something new is the most powerful way to spark dopamine, reboot your mindset, and shift out of midlife stagnation.  Tamsen and Dr Safai share dating […]

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    The #1 Breast Cancer Doctor on the Truth About Mammograms, Hormones & Dense Breasts

    This is the episode to send to every woman you love. Tamsen sits down with Dr. Elizabeth Comen, a leading breast oncologist, Harvard Medical School graduate, and author of the bestseller ‘All in Her Head’, for a myth-busting conversation about breast cancer, early detection, and why advocating for yourself could save your life. Dr. Comen […]

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    Reshma Saujani: Imposter Syndrome Is a Lie

    This week, Tamsen is joined by Reshma Saujani, founder of Girls Who Code, CEO of Moms First, podcast host of My So-Called Midlife. This powerful conversation that flips the script on imposter syndrome, midlife reinvention, and the unrealistic pressures women face at every stage of life. Reshma shares her personal journey—from running for office and […]

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    Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

    Why are women still expected to “stay in their lane”? Tamsen sits down with Stacy London, CEO, author, and former co-host of What Not to Wear. Now with her own QVC fashion line and decades of experience helping women feel seen, Stacy unpacks the emotional toll of high-functioning depression and why conversations about menopause are […]

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    The #1 Ozempic Doctor Reveals The Truth About GLP-1s and Microdosing

    Is Ozempic the answer to lasting weight loss, or is there more to the story?  In this episode of The Tamsen Show, Tamsen speaks with Dr. Alexandra Sowa, a board-certified physician specializing in metabolic health, to unpack the truth about GLP-1 medications like Ozempic. We explore how these drugs work, the emotional realities of weight […]

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    Hormone Therapy for Menopause: What Every Woman Should Know

    Menopause is inevitable, suffering through it is not.  In this game-changing episode, world-renowned OB/GYN Dr. Sharon Malone breaks down the myths, fears, and facts surrounding hormone therapy (HRT) and how misinformation has left millions of women needlessly struggling with their health. From the studies that gave estrogen a bad name to the life-changing benefits of […]

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    Halle Berry: I Thought I Would Skip Menopause

    Hollywood said this would be a career ender. Doctors dismissed her. But Halle Berry refused to be silenced and made sure the world heard her voice on Capitol Hill.  In the premiere episode of The Tamsen Show, Halle opens up like never before about the shocking way she learned she was in menopause, why women […]

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    The Tamsen Show

    Life doesn’t follow a set timeline—so, what comes next? Emmy-winning journalist, filmmaker, and best-selling author Tamsen Fadal is here to help you navigate every stage of life with confidence. From career pivots to menopause, and from relationships to reinvention, Tamsen tackles the conversations that women actually need, featuring real talk from experts, science-backed wellness advice, […]

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    The 4 Shifts You Need to Start Your Next Chapter

    In this deeply personal solo episode, Tamsen Fadal opens up about what reinvention actually looks like and how to rewrite your next chapter with intention. After walking away from a 30-year career and stepping into an entirely new season of life, she found herself facing a question so many women quietly ask: If I’m not […]

  • Eps 393: Why Sleep Gets Worse After 40

    Can’t sleep through the night anymore? Trust me, that’s not just aging. Sleep changes in perimenopause and menopause are often blamed on “getting older,” but that’s a misconception. I’m here to tell you what’s really going on and why your sleep issues might be your body’s way of communicating something deeper. From stress and hormone […]

  • Try It For 1 Day: 4 Small Choices That Make a Surprisingly Huge Difference

    If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, irritable, anxious, sad, or like you’re just barely getting through the week, feeling better comes down to 4 simple choices you can make starting today.   In this episode, Mel breaks down the small choices that make a surprisingly huge difference in your life – choices that determine whether your […]

  • Boy George: “I love fame!” Star signs, sexuality, and writing songs with ChatGPT

    It’s time to stop being filled with jealousy and judgement of others! Boy George admits he used to love hating people, but now actively chooses compassion and kindness. In this chat with Fearne, Boy George explains how this philosophy has helped him celebrate his own and other peoples’ successes more fully. He also talks about […]

  • How to fix flat or frizzy hair (and why hormones matter)

    Noticed your hair isn’t quite what it used to be? Liz explains why hormones are likely behind it and what you can do – plus she tackles fertility over 40, sun protection for very fair skin, grounding sheets, and breast pain on HRT. In this episode: Are hormonal changes to blame for flat and frizzy […]

  • An Honest Guide To HRT Patches – With Menopause Doctor Naomi Potter

    Are HRT patches safe – and why do they sometimes stop working? In this week’s episode, menopause doctor Dr Naomi Potter breaks down everything you need to know about HRT patches — how they work, how to use them properly, and why so many women get confused or frightened by the information leaflet. If you’ve […]

  • AI in Medicine: Friend or Foe?

    Karen explains how AI is already being used in healthcare, from helping find polyps during colonoscopies to speeding documentation. She also covers the biggest concerns, including the possibility of errors, bias, privacy risks, and over-reliance. Visit our website itchyandbitchy.com to read blog posts on the many topics we have covered on the show.

  • Bonus Episode: Confessions of a GenX Woman

    It’s time for a bonus episode. Our guest, Dani Alpert, joins Bridgett to share relatable life stories form her new book, Hello? Who is This? Margaret?  The book describes blind ambition, stubborn optimism, and perseverance filtered through candid stories that feel like pep talks wrapped in cautionary tales.  In other words, a genx life story. […]

  • Inside the Menopause Brain with Dr. Mindy Pelz

    S.2. Ep2 Season 2 is officially in full swing and we are not easing in quietly. The Sweaty Pillow is turning the volume up on the conversations women actually want to have, with smarter science, sharper truths, and support that feels like it was designed by women who get it. What if menopause is not […]

  • 5 easy wins to reduce microplastics and forever chemicals – with Dr Sabine Donnai

    Forever chemicals and microplastics have become part of modern life – they’re in our wardrobes, kitchens, dental floss, in the water we drink, even the air we breathe. Dr Sabine Donnai joins Liz to explain why detoxification is just as important as sleep, nutrition and exercise when it comes to healthy ageing, and shares the […]

  • Eps 392: Should You Take Hormones in Perimenopause w Integrative Health Practitioner Marnee Dejong

    Perimenopause doesn’t have to feel like a mystery you’re meant to “just push through.” This conversation explores what’s really happening in midlife and why so many women feel stuck between symptoms and real solutions. I’m joined by integrative health practitioner Marnee Dejong as we unpack mold toxicity, gut dysfunction, mineral depletion, and why it’s almost […]

  • #1 Dermatologist: The Ultimate Skincare Routine for Amazing Skin

    For the first time ever on The Mel Robbins Podcast, Mel is sitting down with a world-renowned dermatologist.  Whether you’re dealing with acne, aging skin, redness, fine lines, or you’re just overwhelmed and don’t know what to do with the products that are clogging your bathroom drawers, this episode is for you.  If you’re at […]

  • “I skied and got trashed with James Blunt!” How to not care what people think

    There’s probably a bit too much pressure on reaching a definitive state of happiness isn’t there? It’s just not realistic. So Fearne’s dropping into your feed every week for some honest chat about what’s making her feel great, and what’s making her feel completely rubbish. This is a cosy little corner for all of us […]

  • S4 Ep196: An Intimate Conversation with the Author of The Intimate Animal, Dr. Justin Garcia

    In this episode, join me in my living room for a conversation between me, Christie Hefner, and the author of a just released book, Intimate Animal by Justin Garcia, an evolutionary biologist and international authority on the science of sex and relationships and the Executive Director of the world-renowned Kinsey Institute.  The Intimate Animal explores: […]

  • Thursday Thoughts – Staying Present While Moving Forwards

    On this week's Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I talk about all manner of things including where we’re at with our goals and habits, the importance of staying present in the moment, and how crucial awareness is if we want to make any kind of change in our life. We hope you’ll find something useful in […]

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    The Hair Loss Doctor: What Works (And What’s a Waste)

    Dr. Michelle Henry is a board certified dermatologist and expert on the science of hair loss. In today’s episode of The Tamsen Show, she sits down with Tamsen Fadal to break down everything women need to know about female hair loss.  Hair loss affects over 40% of women, especially during (peri)menopause and postpartum. And yet, […]

  • Weighted Vests in Midlife: Are They Worth the Hype?

    It’s a common sight: Couples walking with weighted vests.  Are they worth the hype? The quick answer is yes! In today’s episode, our guest, Michael Easter talks about how carrying weight can dramatically improve strength, endurance, mood, and longevity.  His new book, Walk With Weight: The Definitive Guide to Rucking offers actionable guidance for every level, […]

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    The Sex Life Nobody Warned You About: What a Top Sexual Medicine Expert Wants You To Know

    Most women go through decades of marriage, menopause and midlife without ever having an honest conversation with a doctor about their sex life. Not because they don’t want one — but because most physicians were never trained to have it. This week on unPaused, Dr. Mary Claire Haver sits down with Dr. James Simon, a […]

  • Ep. 207 – How a woman's brain ages at menopause (and what you can do about it now) with Dr. Fiona Lovely

    In this solo episode, Dr. Fiona Lovely delivers an urgent and empowering message about brain health that every woman needs to hear. She breaks down a brand-new research review examining how menopause specifically impacts the female brain, revealing why postmenopausal women account for more than 60 percent of those living with Alzheimer’s disease. Rather than […]

  • 48 – Why heart disease in women is still being missed

    In this episode, Dr Louise Newson is joined by Dr Jayne Morgan, a cardiologist and leading advocate for improving recognition of cardiovascular disease in women. Despite being the number one cause of death globally, heart disease in women remains underdiagnosed, misunderstood and frequently misattributed to anxiety or stress. Together, they explore how differences in symptoms […]

  • Step One to a Regulated Nervous System: AWARENESS

    In this episode of Take a Breath, I’m sharing why awareness is always the first step in nervous system regulation — and why, without it, even the best tools and techniques won’t truly stick. So many of us are living on autopilot, reacting before we even realise we’re reacting. I know this deeply, because that […]

  • Making a Case for Tracking Macros

    I’m making a strong case for tracking macros, especially for women in their 50s who feel stuck, frustrated, and tired of dieting. If you’re still counting calories, guessing your protein, or saying “I eat pretty healthy” but not seeing results, this episode will open your eyes. I break down why tracking macros gives you real […]

  • Eps 391 : 7 Reasons Peptides Don’t Work

    Are your peptides not working… or are your foundations actually shaky? Peptides don’t override physiology; they amplify it.  And that’s the reason why shaky foundations can also hold back your results. In this episode, we’re doing a loving but honest audit of why peptides stall in midlife women. I break down the seven (7) most […]

  • How to Design Your Life in 1 Hour

    What if you could teleport into Stanford’s most popular class and walk out knowing exactly how to build the life you want?  This episode is your invitation to do just that.  Today, Stanford professors Bill Burnett and Dave Evans are giving you their step-by-step guide to find your purpose and design the life you want, […]

  • How to Live a Meaningful Life & Design the Future You Want

    What if you could teleport into Stanford’s most popular class and walk out knowing exactly how to build the life you want?  This episode is your invitation to do just that.  Today, Stanford professors Bill Burnett and Dave Evans are giving you their step-by-step guide to find your purpose and design the life you want, […]

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    The 4 Tools That Rebuild Your Confidence Fast

    Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build. In this solo episode, Tamsen Fadal breaks down the practical tools that helped her rebuild her confidence after years of negative comments, self-doubt, and overthinking. From the email that stuck with her for years to the everyday habits that changed everything, she shares the exact […]

  • Poorna Bell: "Women want more, not more to do!" How to put yourself first

    What more do you want from life? What more do you want for yourself? Award-winning journalist and author Poorna Bell reckons it’s time to start really asking ourselves these questions. In this chat with Fearne, Poorna explains why it’s important to aim for goals you set for yourself, not the ones set by society. They […]

  • Stress made me age overnight – can I reverse it?

    After a really difficult year, Julie feels like she’s aged rapidly and now seems to catch every cold going. Liz shares why intense stress can make it feel as though we’ve aged years in months – and reassures Julie that the damage isn’t permanent. In this episode: Bridal beauty tips for an inside-out glow Is there […]

  • Am I Losing My Mind?! Or Is This Perimenopause? With Desiree Burch

    Brain fog in menopause – who else can relate?In this episode, Dr Naomi Potter is joined by comedian, voice actor and presenter Desiree Burch. You might know Desiree from competing on the gameshow Taskmaster, the narrator for Netflix's dating show Too Hot to Handle, or from her current standup comedy tour The Golden Wrath.Desiree opens […]

The Tamsen Show

You deserve a roadmap. Consider this your starting point. Hosted by Emmy-winning journalist, filmmaker, and New York Times best-selling author Tamsen Fadal, The Tamsen Show is where real talk meets real solutions. Each week, Tamsen sits down with top doctors, leading voices, and women rewriting the rules—from hormones and health to reinvention, relationships, and everything […]

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