About
When Deb Benfield joined me last December, so many listeners told me they had never heard the term internalized ageism. And once they had, they couldn't unsee it. So I invited Deb back to go deeper.
Deb and I talk about how the stories we absorbed about aging (hello, Mrs. Roper's muumuu) shape how we feel about our own changing bodies in perimenopause and menopause. We get into the aging hierarchy and how it piles on top of the body hierarchy, why menopause weight gain gets read as "letting yourself go," and why so many pro-aging influencers still look like the same old ideal, just with silver hair.
We also talk about what helps: moving your body in ways you enjoy, rest, connection, and making health choices from your values instead of from fear. And Deb offers a beautiful reframe on independence that makes room for interdependence and asking for help.
If this conversation stirs something up for you, that's a good sign. Noticing the default programming is where change starts.
CONNECT WITH DEB
Website: https://www.debrabenfield.com
Unapologetic Aging (Deb's book): https://www.debrabenfield.com/book
Instagram: @agingbodyliberation
JOIN ME
Join Deb and me live in the Midlife Feast Community on November 18 for a deeper conversation about internalized ageism and longevity culture. The recording will be available to watch anytime in The Feaster Library.
Join us here:https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/themidlifefeastcommunity
Book a connection call with me: https://p.bttr.to/3DQX9SF
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RELATED EPISODES
Episode 173 How To Age Without Apology with Deb Benfield RDN
Episode 97 The Impact of Ageism on Body Image in Midlife with Deb Benfield, MEd, RDN
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