I Wasn't Feeling Down. I Just Wasn't Feeling Right!

Menopause Whilst Black

September 11, 2024 ∙ 66 mins
Episode 63

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Menopause Whist Black Season SEVEN Episode ONE! We're BACK!

Our guest for Episode ONE of the NEW Season Seven is Rebecca Orleans. Rebecca is a neurodivergent multi disciplinary administrator and photographic artist of Ghanian and Nigerian heritage. She has had some of her photography published in a photobook called ‘The Traveling world is not arriving’ by @ReFramed.uk based in the midlands UK, exhibited at Format festival online and been part of an award winning exhibition called Living the dream in London with 50 other Black female photographers. Rebecca also has other creative passions in knitting, crochet, and sewing. She is incorporating stitching into her photography centering her menopause journey through self-portraits and has written blog posts called ‘The open journal of a Perimenopausal woman’. 

We talk about:

> Rebeccas struggle with Endometriosis and Adenomyosis

> Losing and rediscovering her creative passion.

> Dietary changes that helped her.

> The Joy Retreat Barbados - why she can't stop talking about it.

> How has chosen to look for joy in her life

...and so much more.

Notes:

Pamela Windle Womens Health Coach

Calm app

Jasmine Evelyn @mindfulmovement246

Sharon Walters 'Seeing Ourselves'.

Rebecca’s Blog: https://rebeccaorleans.wordpress.com/

https://rebeccaorleans.myportfolio.com/poppybead-by-rebecca-orleans

@rebeccamorleans instagram 

 

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Please keep talking about menopause amongst your family, friends and work colleagues of all genders. Together we will break this taboo and ensure that every person gets the menopause care they need. 

Karen Arthur is a broadcaster, artist, author and menopause activist.  She is host of bi-weekly weekend radio show on Golddust radio 'Can We Talk'.

Karen  hosts The Joy Retreat Barbados, the worlds first retreat for Black women in any stage of menopause. Bookings for April/May 2025 open shortly. Email thekarenarthur@mail.com 

Karens first childrens book, 'Grandmas Locs', illustrated by Camilla Ru, on celebrating natural Black hair through the relationship between a grandmother and her grandson, will be published by Tate publishing on 24th October 2024. Preorders open.

*we recognise that inclusive language is important in ensuring that ALL who experience menopause are seen and heard. The term women is used whilst mindful of this.

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Menopause Whilst Black

Episode

63

Date

September 11, 2024

Length

66 mins
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    In conversation with … Judith Jacob, Actor , Writer, Fitness Trainer and Radio DJ. We discuss Grenada, Sarcoidosis in her family, Judith’s love of training and eating healthily (although Jaffa cakes are life!) We talk about the importance of sisterhood when navigating change  and setting boundaries more often. Links: Judiths Instagram @Judithjacob1313 Conscious Radio   Nat […]

  • My Mum Going Through The Change Was Just Big People Tings!

    In conversation with … Lorna Hamilton-Brown MBE, full time Artist and Craftivist and bold lippy wearer based in Hastings, East Sussex. Dubbed ‘The Banksy of Knitting’, Lorna and I discuss the lack of menopausal vocabulary that made it difficult for her to understand her menopause transition – the importance of being able to join up […]

  • It's Not All 'Grumpy With A Fan' – I Want To TalkAbout The Icky Stuff!

    In conversation with … Natasha Landers, Diversity and Inclusion Consultant, Interior Designer and daughter of the late Ras Malachi – Spiritual Advisor to Bob Marley. We discuss her Endometriosis diagnosis and treatment by the medical profession, early onset Peri-Menopause and a welcome newborn surprise, the importance of talking more openly about the menopause in the […]

  • House Music to Holistic Therapy and Dancing Out Your Prayers!

    In conversation with …Carol Leeming MBE FRSA  – Proud ‘Jam-tiguan’, Leicesterian and multi-award winning, multi-disciplinary artist in literature, performing arts and digital media. Carol embarked on life changing Holistic practise after her teenage son was diagnosed with Lymphoma and shares her amazing, varied life journey since. This episode is dedicated to Carols late mother Zeta […]

  • "Cross Your Legs and Don't Mess About With Boys." Sex Ed 101.

    Welcome! Season Two begins with Karen Arthur in conversation with Nicola Brierley – Wife and mother of three, Founder of South London Vintage Clothing Store ‘Little Sister’ and proud Dominican and Peckham-ite.  Nicola is funny and frank on how she managed both a Diabetes diagnosis and the onset of her peri-menopause. We discuss the difficulties […]

  • Reclaiming Menopause: Creativity, Curiosity and Connection.

    In conversation with …Eileen Bellot –  Writer, Director and Changemaker. Our final episode of Series 1. Dominican Eileen is an engaging storyteller. We talk lifestyle changes due to a combination of Menopause and T2 Diabetes. The importance of creativity and how this has helped her to enable other women from all backgrounds to talk about […]

  • "But…are you SURE?!" Confessions of a Happy Post Menopausal Black Woman!

    In conversation with …Professor Laura Serrant OBE – Global diversity and Inclusive practice specialist, professional speaker, and experienced coach. Laura tells us about starting peri-menopause earlier than many and over preparing for the inevitable worse case scenario that never arrived. We talk about her background in sexual health, learning about her own body and her […]

  • Working 9 to 5 amidst Menopausal Mayhem! From confusion to confidence with style!

    In conversation with …Fay Reid –  Executive assistant and founder of social media platform and blog 9to5menopause.  Always honest and to the point, Fay tells us about how her mothers Cancer diagnosis and sad passing brought her menopause symptoms to a head and how her own perseverance with HRT has given her life back. We […]

  • "The sun came and sat down next to us!" Somebody DO something!

    In conversation with …Esther Poyer – Life coach, creative write and writing workshop facilitator. Esther’s website  www.estherpoyer.com Instagram/Twitter @thelivingfruits Etsy shop thelivingfruitsshop Links: Black History Boot Camp @GirlTrek Hot flush magnet www.ladycare-uk.com Staebroek Market Guyana. We hope you find something that resonates. Remember to consult a qualified health professional before trying any of the steps […]

  • Trees, Words and Hope. Welcoming the light between the cracks.

    Karen Arthur in conversation with Jackee Holder – Coach Facilitator, Author of 4 books, journalling expert, nature lover and tree enthusiast shares her story. Jackee’s website http://www.jackeeholder.com/ Instagram @Jackeeholderinspires Latest book  Writing with Fabulous Trees Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom, Christiane Northrup White Supremacy in the Coaching Industry, Dream and Do Podcast by Nicola Rae-Wickham Sarah […]

  • Why 'Cute and Muted' Deserves the BOOT!

    In Episode 6 I chat with Image and Business Consultant, Trainer and Pastor, Evelyn Femi-Paul. Evelyn, who ‘proudly Nigerian’, shares her early menopause experience that led her to believe she had ‘escaped’ symptoms. Oh how wrong she was! They arrived years later! But with research and lifestyle changes Evelyn started to feel better and decided […]

  • From Script writing to sun salutations! Yoga for every BODY!

    Oh just two black UK based women in their fifties talking about menopause. No biggie! Fashion Creative and Embracer of Life, Karen Arthur chats with…London based ex Scriptwriter now Senior Yoga teacher, Paula Hines, who takes us through her peri-menopause experience and how her yoga knowledge helps her and others navigate her symptoms. Topics include […]

  • Life, death, grief, change…and joy…on repeat!

    Relationship expert and veteran podcast host, Natalie Lue of Baggage Reclaim takes us through her peri-menopause experience so far. We talk disappearing coils(!), night sweats and a four month marathon training regime that eventually brought Nat to an abrupt halt. RUDE by neccessary. At times hilarious and never dull, Nat gives us some life affirming […]

  • Pommy and peri-menopause – You can take the girl out of Slough…

    Karen talks to UK born Australia based Stylist and thrifted fashion expert Julia Browne about accidentally discovering she was in peri-menopause during lockdown. We chat about brain fog, what happened when she consulted her male doctor, the nuances of being black in Australia and and how she has found sisterhood within the Melbourne fashion community. […]

  • Shape shifting, 'Rona boobies and US Elections during a global pandemic

    Oh just two black women in their fifties talking about menopause. No biggie! A lil’ swerve. Fashion Creative Karen Arthur chats with Omishade Burney-Scott founder of The Black Girls Guide to Surviving Menopause and social activist about Fire signs, moving out of debt, late motherhood and the onset of Peri-menopause. We talk about her elders […]

  • "I sat down for five years" Chronic Fatigue Syndrome to radical self care.

    Oh just two black UK based women in their fifties talking about menopause. No biggie! First episode! Fashion Creative and Embracer of Life, Karen Arthur chats with Women’s Health and Hormone Coach, Personal Trainer and co-author Pamela Windle about grief, Lockdown, Black Lives Matter and how her radical approach to self care helped her heal […]

  • Menopause Whilst Black

    Opening a well overdue conversation about diversity in Menopause. Placing the menopausal experience of Black UK based women front and centre by sharing their stories. Giving a hug, a hand or a high five to those supporting, dreading, suffering or thriving through menopause. Because, believe it or not, there’s a lot to celebrate too!  Hosted […]

  • Symptoms of Breast Cancer (YouTube Video #389)

    Symptoms of Breast Cancer In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Barbara 'Menopause' Taylor reveals a surprising truth—most breast cancers have no early symptoms. She debunks common myths, especially the widespread belief that breast pain signals cancer, and explains the difference between signs and symptoms. Learn why relying on symptoms alone can be dangerous, and how early […]

  • Sherri Dindal – Being The Real Slim Sherri and new beginnings in Midlife & Menopause

    Many of you will know The Real Slim Sherri from Instagram and TikTok – she is well known for her no- holds barred, unfiltered truths around growing up in the 70’s and 80’s, midlife, life as a Gen X woman and menopause.  I have loved her page ever since I discovered it and so was […]

  • What Stem Cell Therapy Taught Me About Recovery, Mindset, and Reinventing Downtime

    In today’s episode, I share my personal experience with stem cell therapy—and the unexpected lessons that came from being forced to slow down. Whether you’re choosing a procedure like stem cell therapy or suddenly dealing with an injury or illness, time off from your normal routine isn’t just inconvenient — it’s a major mental and […]

  • 193 Can Color Heal You? Dr. Deanna Minich Thinks So 🎨🧠🌿

    Forget everything you thought you knew about nutrition. This episode gets wildly colorful—literally. Dr. Deanna Minich joins Sally to decode how COLOR—yes, actual colors—can shift your health, your hormones, and even your mood. From purple carrots to chlorophyll, this convo goes deep on how to nourish your body and your energy. We’re talking:✨ Yellow for […]

  • Ep #152: Overcoming Gender Barriers in a Male-Dominated Industry with Captain Reyné O’Shaughnessy

    In this episode, Andrea Donsky, nutritionist, published menopause researcher, menopause educator, and co-founder of WeAreMorphus.com, talks to Captain Reyné O’Shaughnessy. She is a veteran commercial airline pilot with over 34 years at a Fortune 50 carrier and more than 10,000 heavy-jet flight hours, including being among the first women qualified on the Boeing 747. She's […]

  • 219 How to Support Your Mental Health and Stop Menopause Weight Gain

    Menopause is a natural part of life, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. I’ve experienced the exhaustion, the thinning hair, the mood swings—and the confusion that comes when you feel like your body is changing faster than you can keep up. In this episode, I’m sharing my personal journey with menopause and the lessons I’ve […]

  • S4 Ep178: Mid-life Nutrition: Tips and Tricks From a Dietician with Dr. Alexandra Filingeri

    Any mid-life woman knows that once you hit your 40s, 50s, or 60s, things will not go well if you eat the same way you did when you were 20. But it’s confusing to know what to eat, and how much to eat, without downloading multiple APPs and carrying around a calculator  My guest, Alexandra […]

  • 164: Emotional Eating in Menopause – The Psychology Behind the Cravings

    Do you get cravings for the foods that make your soul feel fuzzy but your body feel icky? In this episode, Adele explains the psychology behind those cravings, how to make steps away from those cravings and how to be more mindful with your eating. Check out Adele’s FREE symptom assessment here: https://adelejohnstoncoaching.com/free-copy-of-our-symptom-assessment/ Adele is […]

  • Thursday Thoughts – Writing a Book

    This week on Thursday Thoughts, Lucy and I dive into a juicy conversation all about her brand new book Shiny Happy Singles — or Thrive Solo if you're tuning in from the US. We chat about the inspiration behind the book, what it really means to thrive on your own, and why this message is […]

  • From Midlife Crisis to Midlife Chrysalis: Chip Conley’s Roadmap to Reinvention

    In this episode of Hello Menopause, Stacy talks with entrepreneur, author, and Modern Elder Academy founder Chip Conley about what it really means to navigate midlife. Drawing from his own experience with prostate cancer and hormone therapy, Chip shares what it felt like to go through “male menopause” and how that informed his vision for […]

  • Bladder Issues in Menopause – The Hidden Bacteria You Need to Know

    If bladder issues in menopause are keeping you from jumping for bone density or for jumping for joy. Or if laughing and sneezing or a need to consider hydration needs against access to a bathroom are real life and every day concerns you… we’ve got you today.  Bladder issues in menopause don’t need to keep […]

  • Ep 176 -Restoring Blood Flow for Brain, Heart and Hormonal Health with Cathy Eason

    In this week’s episode,  Dr. Fiona Lovely speaks with Cathy Eason, a certified holistic nutritionist and clinical educator, about nitric oxide (NO), often called the “miracle molecule” for its vital role in blood flow and thus, overall health.  We talk about the groundbreaking findings from a pilot study on nitric oxide’s impact on women’s sexual […]

  • Ep 481: The 5,000-Year-Old Secret to Stopping Emotional Eating

    I’m showing you how ancient Buddhist wisdom can help you break the cycle of emotional eating with more awareness, compassion, and ease—just like I teach my clients. Get the full show notes and information here: https://drdebbutler.com/481

  • #129: 7 Essential Habits to Move Through Menopause with More Ease

    Midlife doesn’t have to be a crisis — it can be a genuine metamorphosis. In this episode, I’m not talking about just surviving menopause.I’m talking about moving through it with more ease, clarity, and actual calm. You’ll hear a segment from a training I recently ran, where I shared seven essential habits that helped me […]

  • 13 – HRT after 60: myths, facts and finding your own path with Ann Newson

    In this week’s episode, Dr Louise Newson is joined by her mother, Ann Newson, for a candid and deeply insightful conversation about HRT after 60, as requested by some ofour viewers.  Together, Dr Louise and Ann address the persistent fears around breast cancer and HRT, revisiting data from the controversial 2002 WHI study. They also explore the […]

Menopause Whilst Black

Opening a well overdue conversation about diversity in Menopause. Placing the menopausal experience of Black UK based women front and centre by sharing their stories. Giving a hug, a hand or a high five to those supporting, dreading, suffering or thriving through menopause. Because, believe it or not, there’s a lot to celebrate too!  Hosted […]

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