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What if your relationship with alcohol isn’t really about alcohol at all?
In this episode of the Wise Divine Women Podcast, Dana Irvine sits down with Australian hypnotherapist and alcohol-reduction expert Georgia Foster to explore why so many high-functioning women find themselves drinking more than they intended—especially during midlife, perimenopause, menopause, empty nesting, retirement, stress, and major life transitions.
Georgia’s approach is refreshingly different. Rather than assuming everyone who is concerned about their drinking needs to quit completely, she helps people understand the emotional patterns, habits, and internal dialogue that can cause alcohol to gradually begin managing them instead of the other way around.
At the heart of the conversation is what Georgia calls the inner critic—that relentless internal voice reminding you what you didn’t accomplish, what you should have done differently, or why you’re falling short.
For many women, a glass of wine temporarily quiets that voice.
But Georgia explains that it may not necessarily be the alcohol we are craving. Instead, we may be seeking the chemical and emotional relief that comes when the inner critic finally becomes quiet.
Georgia’s Simple Inner Critic Exercise
When you notice negative internal dialogue, Georgia encourages you to:
- Write down exactly what your inner critic is saying.
- Beside it, write the opposite or more supportive statement.
- Speak the new statement aloud when possible.
- Close your eyes for five minutes and visualize your day unfolding calmly and successfully.
- When negative thoughts appear, breathe them out and return to the new thought.
One example Georgia shares is:
“It is safe for me to achieve things today.”
Repeated practice helps create a new emotional reference point instead of automatically reaching for alcohol, food, or another coping mechanism.
A Powerful Reminder
Georgia reminds us that the way you drink today does not have to define the way you drink tomorrow.
Your patterns are not set in stone.
By becoming aware of your thoughts, strengthening your self-esteem, creating alcohol-free space, and learning how to calm the inner critic before reaching for a drink, you can begin changing your relationship with alcohol from one of need to choice.
Connect with Georgia Foster
Learn more about Georgia, her hypnotherapy work, the Drink Less Bootcamp, and her resources at: GeorgiaFoster
Ready to Better Understand Your Own Body?
If alcohol, stress, hormones, metabolism, digestion, breast health, or nervous-system changes feel different than they used to, your body may be asking for a different kind of support.
For support with hormones, metabolism, breast health, digestion, stress, and whole-body wellness, visit DanaIrvine.com and book a Health Clarity Call.
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