#131 Relationship Spotlight: What's Your Love Language?

Women on Fire®

August 28, 2024 13 mins

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In this Mini Pause®, Jenna talks about the classic bestseller The Five Love Languages: The Secret To Love That Lasts by Dr Gary Chapman PhD.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:03 About Five Love Languages: The Secret To Love That Lasts

04:04 Exploring the Love Languages

04:32 Words of Affirmation

05:06. Quality Time

05:47. Acts Of Service

06:30. Receiving Gifts

07:26. Physical Touch

09:48 Most common and least common Love Languages


Episode Resources:


Take: The Five Love Languages Quiz here

Read: The Five Love Languages: The Secret To Love That Lasts by Dr Gary Chapman PhD here

Read: Dr Gary Chapman's analysis of The Five Love Languages here

Read: Did You Know Girlfriends Are Good For Your Health here (and about oxytocin)

Botanical support: Merry Peri® for peri & Perky Post for post-menopause here


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menoverse, peri, menopause, postmenopause, midlife, millennopause, millennials, perimenopause, hormonal changes, symptoms, post-menopause, The Five Love Languages





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August 28, 2024

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13 mins
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