#106 Where Has My Libido Gone?

Women on Fire®

April 11, 2023 ∙ 8 mins
Episode 7

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On this episode of Women On Fire® we're talking about sex drive and the effect of menopausal hormones.

Many women find they lose their libido in perimenopause / menopause however others find just the opposite.

 

It can be frustrating but there are things you can do so don't hesitate to reach out with any questions.


On this episode, we talk about:

  • Worrying about libido (1:18)
  • Painful sex (1:33)
  • Best sex ever (1:50)
  • Estrogen and sex drive (2:16)
  • Use it or lose it (3:02)
  • Responsive and spontaneous desire (3:12)
  • The pelvic muscle system (3:08)
  • It's not just your hormones (4:48)
  • Tips to improve your desire (5:37)


Episode Resources:

Find out more about libido here.


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Women on Fire®

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7

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April 11, 2023

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8 mins
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