In conversation with Hayley Cockman

Menopause Café in conversation with…

November 6, 2020 ∙ 22 mins
Episode 16

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Hayley Cockman went through the menopause at the age of 14. Now aged 39, Hayley has recently become a passionate advocate for early menopause and is determined to help others avoid some of the challenges she faced. We chatted to Hayley about what helps her navigate post-menopausal life, as well as her decision to embark upon the process of adoption. 

You can read Hayley's full story on her blog: hayleysmenopause14.blogspot.com and connect with Hayley on Twitter: @CockmanHayley as well as Instagram: @prematuremenopause14 

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Menopause Café in conversation with…

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16

Date

November 6, 2020

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22 mins
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Menopause Café in conversation with…

Bringing you conversations about menopause. Find out more at: www.menopausecafe.net Menopause Café is a Scottish registered charity SC048435

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